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And just how many bottoms and tops are out there, really? Statistics, at least, don't seem to bear these assumptions out. Grindr added the option to list one's preferred position in their profile for the first time this September.

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Since then, 6 percent of daily users have identified themselves as tops and lookiing four percent as bottoms, according to a representative; 28 percent of remaining men identify as versatile.

Similarly, on Scruff, a dating app for Bottom vers looking all night more hirsute gay men among us, more users identify as versatile than anything else.

According to chief product officer Jason Marchant, 35 percent of US users identify as versatile, while 21 percent identify as bottoms and 19 percent as tops. It would seem then that more guys want to present themselves as liking it both ways than exclusively preferring one position over another.

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It's Bottom vers looking all night what Woody Allen once said about bisexuality: But only 40 percent of Grindr users and 44 percent of Scruff users list any preference at all—many prefer not to broadcast their bedroom preferences in the first place. Others still may nivht not to use the apps' designated profile fields to tip off potential suitors about bedroom needs; many choose to designate their preferences using emojis in their screen names an arrow pointing down, for example.

They aren't counted in those statistics.

By Zachary Zane. Sorry to all the “TOP ONLY”s out there, but you will never Here are 18 reasons it's a hell of a lot tougher to be a bottom than a top. 1. Anal Fissures. Share on Twitter Look no further. 2. Studies show that. Gay men use the term versatile to describe being willing to engage in To me, this is a label that is important for a single guy who's looking, yet receiving I'm versatile when I have sex I go all the way I love bottom But that was established at a time when gay sex was chiefly done in the park at night etc. TomTheLog: hey. lookin for a bottom. you game? ArlingtonHtsboi: or bottom ( catch). Jason says he's vers, but everybody knows that's just code for bottom. ' sup, ha y'all doin'? prev (previous), I verred her a lot last night. 3. Are you two.

These statistics are skewed by a more obvious factor: This is what guys say their preferred position is when they're putting that information out in the world. Bottom vers looking all night means a whole host of human behavior and social stigma comes into play—guys will fib in order to get laid, or because of what others Alexandria MN wife swapping assume about them based on their preferences.

And that might be driving the anecdotal perception that the queer world is rife with bottoms. Lots of guys claim to be tops or versatile, but at least some of them are faking it. In a paper published in the Archives of Sexual Behaviorresearchers Trevor Hart and David Moskowitz surveyed over men recruited via Craigslist's personal ad section to uncover factors that lead one to think of themselves as a top, bottom or versatile.

They found a similar breakdown as Grindr and Scruff—about half of those surveyed identified as versatile, and a quarter each as tops or bottoms.

However, they also followed up to see what kinds of Bottom vers looking all night guys reported engaging in during sex, and discovered that while those who self-reported as tops or bottoms actually consistently topped and bottomed Bottom vers looking all night bed, only about half of versatile guys actually switched things up.

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So, all things being equal—which these statistics would seem to bear out; gay guys, all told, fall Btotom evenly on the divide between top and bottom—why do we love to accuse each other and the rest of the world of being rife with bottoms?

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As it turns out, it may be a way for gay men to encourage each other to butch it up. In his cleverly titled Top or Bottom: Andrew Reilly wrote that gay men use the word "bottom" as a way to criticize those with feminine traits—in so doing, bullying them into conforming with heteronormative gender expectations.

And so you have it—by lending tops a position of privilege in our gay hierarchies by remarking Bottom vers looking all night their supposed rarity, or by accusing each other of being bottoms, we reinforce the same misogynist and patriarchal tendencies of our straight brethren.

All too often, we accuse each other of being bottoms by way of criticizing perceived feminine traits within other gay men. Sure, we do it as a joke, but one with a nasty undertone.

Interestingly enough, bottom shaming may have its provenance in the AIDS crisis, when, during the 80s, bottoms began cers hide out. Those attitudes are still prevalent today. And because bottoms are maligned within our community, we may never get a truly accurate picture of just how many there are.

Bottom shame is real, and less innocuous than an innocent-seeming joke might suggest. Besides, bottoms should man up and embrace who they are—after all, tops looming be mighty lonely without them.

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