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If everyone in their past was 'crazy,' that is a huge red flag. If the date says one thing and does another, look deep into yourself and tell yourself it will only get worse and walk away.
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Rather than listening to your concern and apologising, they will manipulate and flip the conversation, telling you all the things you've done to hurt and upset them. They don't care about you and your concerns; they only care about themselves. Narcissists are void of empathy. They don't believe they are wrong about anything, and they will constantly feel victimised, accusing you of attacking them when you're just expressing your feelings in a situation.
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It is totally up to you to make our relationship work. Most do not. Like Chinese water torture: Is it worth the cost of arguing?
Eventually your kids grow up, your obnoxious brother-in-law will join a monastery and your parents will die. You got it… Mr. You and your partner need to be the eye of the hurricane. They add up. Even cleaning up when you accidentally pee on the toilet seat seriously, someone said that —these things all matter and add up over the long run.
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This seems to become particularly important once kids enter the picture. The big message I heard hundreds of times about kids: Children are worshipped in our culture these days. Parents are expected to sacrifice everything for them. But the raent way to raise healthy and happy kids is to maintain a healthy and happy marriage. A good marriage makes good kids. So keep your marriage the top priority.
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I think people give up too soon. You need to be the kind of person that you want your spouse to be. When you do that it makes a world of difference. Out of the hundreds of analogies I saw these past few weeks, one stuck with me.
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