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His ex in back in his life as you noticed on Facebook. Now he is distancing himself from you showing you he is NOT the one. Being too sore to text you upon his return? But keep in mind you had only had 4 dates. So move on and find a guy who is closer lokoing home. I met this guy from online dating Mixed guy looking around saw Mixed guy looking around other four times.
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What is going on?!? Thank you. Today is actually the 2nd day that i held myself not communicating with him since i find it hard to understand why. My dating advice is to drop him. A man who is serious about love and a relationship will pursue you, want to get to know you and spend time with you.
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